Welcome! I’m so glad you’re here. If you’ve found your way to this blog, you’re probably someone who, like me, is seeking a little more authenticity in this world of curated lives and social media noise. This blog is my personal journey back to what the internet was always meant to be—a space for genuine self-expression and meaningful connection.
As a millennial who grew up in the days of AOL Instant Messenger, Xanga, and MySpace, I remember a time when blogging wasn’t about gaining followers or chasing validation. It was a digital journal where thoughts were shared freely and friendships were formed around real, unfiltered experiences. Over the years, I’ve seen social media evolve into a space where we’re constantly performing for an audience rather than just being ourselves. The pursuit of likes and followers has reshaped what it means to truly connect.
During a year-long fast from Facebook, Instagram, and Reddit, I realized how much I missed the raw, real conversations that once took place in those early days of the internet. I longed for the connection that was about substance, not performance. This blog is my effort to reclaim that space for genuine expression. Here, I’ll be sharing thoughts, reflections, and stories—not for validation, but for personal growth and meaningful engagement with those who resonate with what I have to say.
I’m focusing on small, authentic connections, because they are restorative. Whether through journaling, blogging, or podcasting, I’m stepping away from the noise and embracing the kind of conversations that matter most. It’s not about how many people read or like my posts, but about the few who find value in the words I share.
This blog is my invitation for you to join me in a return to authenticity. To reflect, express, and connect in ways that feel real and intentional. If you’re looking for more than just surface-level content, if you want to be part of a space that prioritizes genuine connection, then you’re in the right place. Let’s share, reflect, and create real conversations together.
Thanks for reading, and I hope you’ll join me on this journey back to what matters most: true self-expression and meaningful connection.
-Holan